Tuesday, April 19, 2011

an Inner child in my grandmom

I talk to my Nani every day, the first thing before I start my day in office. Somehow talking to her gives a head start to my day and fills me with positive energy essential for day’s challenges.

But today it was different. Today her voice was euphoric, filled with giggles, laughter and chirpiness of a teenager. And the credit goes to her two sisters who were visiting her after a long time. The bond she shared with these two will be so different from what she shares with rest of us . Though in their 70’s they are still the same little girls in each other’s company. I wonder how their childhood have been. They never had tens of dolls, tons of games , cupboards full of soft toys and summer vacations at exotic places. Rather they faced difficulties to make ends meet still their child hood memories are as beautiful as they can be.

This got me thinking, in all our years of togetherness, I never got to explore this side of hers. She got married at the age of 13 and had a kid by 17. She never lived the childhood she deserved. Domestic responsibilities dominated most part of here life but still , she has managed to keep alive the child like enthusiasm . The same goes for here sisters as well.

She is an elixir of life for me.I have always known here to be calm composed, eternal positive thinker, my personal google for every difficulty I have and seeing her unwinding, reliving her childhood filled me up with indescribable emotions, somehow I loved my Girly Nani Today.

4 comments:

  1. this was awsum..i got a little nostalgic after reading this ..!! she is the best woman in this world...nd the most beautiful dadi one cud ever wish for..m proud to be her granddaughter ..she is funny , a bestfriend , a guide , a mother ...infact everythng to me....i cn share anythng nd everythng wid her Nd i noe she wil find me the best solution ....her thoughts r as clear as a crystal...nd her heart is as sweet as sugar..!! she taught me lessons of life ...nd hw to deal wid each one ov them ....i still remember our dublin trip which by far the best trip ov my life as she was the part ov it ...i nvr missed anyone back in india coz she nvr made me feel it so...she was always thr for me ..i love to hug her nd sleep ....she noes all my little secrets ....nd the best thing abt her she cn make anyone eat anythng..no matter hw bad it tastes ..;) ...for me she is a great human being ..the best person i noe ..or will ever noe...ppl whu havn met her r reli missin out on sumthng ..!!lol..!!
    its her bday in jus two days ... I LOVE YU DADDI A LOT ..!!

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  2. Awesome blog betaji. Hats off to Nani.. she is indeed a great lady.. that's how I would like to be when I turn 70. And yes you must write more often !!

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  3. So true betaji,,i completely adore nani..i think she is divine... i wish one day I will be like her.. i feel so happy when people say i resemble her but at the same time i would be proud of myself if someone finds my heart resembling hers...love u nani

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  4. Hugs to u Shippu ! Wat a write up ! you have beautifully glorified the beauty of dadi.....every comment is swashed with love and adoration ! She is really very special person in every ones life, A DIVINE BLESSING !

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